You know, I don't think anyone has the right to say what makes a real woman or not. Yes we all have our preferences but at the end of the day not every man or woman believes that a real woman has curves and not every man or woman believes that being skinny is important. Really we are all just born the way we are, some people will like you and some people may not. But as long as you believe you are a real woman...why should it matter to anyone else? If you are strong, have a beautiful mind and love yourself, you won't have to suffer with what society brings.